On March 5, 2011 I wrote a blog expressing what atributes I wanted in a man. Clearly that has not worked out like how I planned but I am a firm believer in speaking things into existence. I shall update my list, expressing that I want a man who will also…
Who has a great memory.
Who won’t see me as flighty but as someone who never wants to settle.
Who has many passions and desires.
Who does not worship the ground that Jay-Z walks on. Or address him as “The Great HOV”.
Who will assume that 9 times out of 10, I’ll want him to drive.
Who will understands that hair wash day means exactly what it sounds like. It’s an all day process that is not to be rushed.
Who refers to his ex girlfriend as “she-who-shall-not-be-named”.
Who isn’t a Virgo.
Who has a favorite Michael Jackson song.
Who can say an amazing prayer.
Here is my original post:
A man who.
all I want is a man who:
shares my love of the Philadelphia Eagles; my like of the New York Knicks.
will tolerate that I will never stop watching The Golden Girls.
will understand when say that I am not hungry, it really means that I’m about to steal food of his plate without asking.
knows that it is hard for me to be on a date without checking my phone.
won’t get mad that I cannot stay on my side of the bed.
will not judge me when I say I’m scared of roller coasters.
will co sign my spontaneous behavior
will also share my affection of over weight white cock-a-poos who are named Lola.
would take the hint when I say nothing is wrong and not asking me the same question repeatedly but at least try and figure out what would be bothering me.
is accepting that I will put my all into us and not take me for granted.
will motivate when I quit.
loves me, short hair or long hair.
won’t hesitate to put me in my place and then initiate make up sex.
and a man who won’t read this post and already have these qualities.
Le sigh. Wishful blogging.